Tuesday, November 23, 2010

No Longer Son Of Elton

Posted by IMers at 5:26 AM ,
Yesterday the news appeared in Elpais: Make up a parent. All do. Joaquin Prado - Madrid - 04/11 / 2010 "I come to register my adopted son," she told the staff of the Registry of Madrid April 1, 2002.
Type in the name of the parent application.
"Look, that's not going to be possible because it has the biological father in the adoption papers and I prohijado my son as a single mother.
"You see, the law says you have to name the father.
What do I do, I invent it?
"Yes. They do all the women in her situation.
What parents often invented?
Singers fashion. Right now, Ricky Martin and also, though less, Julio Iglesias. Ricardo or July, for legal purposes.
She could not believe what I was hearing and refused to enter into such a farce. But the official urged him, or appointing a parent or no family book.
Could be Richard Wagner or Prince, which I like better? Would Ricardo or "the artist formerly known as Prince", for legal purposes.
The officer noticed the joke and began to lose patience: "O give me a normal name or takes time." Eventually the situation was so absurd closed, with a name also absurd, as well as the law required. It was not until 2008, when the rule was repealed, effective from the second Socialist government, so that the mother needs a new family book adapted to the reality, especially considering it did in the DNI's future son, but had little lucky because in the Madrid procedures are very slow. In other communities, such as Castile and Leon, the change takes place almost automatically. Again, patience.
I chose John because he was a very common name and my conversation was absurd for me with a Spanish official in Beijing, to my anger and disbelief, I politely explained that the law was made for my sake and for my daughter and I said very pert looking into my eyes, "to avoid being called a bitch you know?" . Few people know that until a couple of years of single mothers had to "invent" a father's name. Forced to lie in a public document required by law. So incredible, surreal, absurd and incomprehensible that civil registry officials protested because they said that some woman had insulted and even assaulted me this Juan has cost me much trouble. The first is that I have never been able to explain to my daughter. Elena knows things for many years to 9 years old girls do not even know are possible, known to discriminate by a girl, who began his life in an orphanage, who was born in another country other than this, that is ethnically different from most, that his mother is a lesbian. Superex lived five years and attended his mother's lesbian wedding. Elena later was taken by the blogspot. photography wedding with mini- ex. Elena knows I've had a long process of divorce and that is the only child of a single parent. Elena has lived close to the illness and death of a grandmother. But I have been unable to explain why in your ID, passport and marriage certificate puts the daughter of John.

The second occurred in Mexico. When I walked in the door of the Institute of Immigration to arrange a residence permit for my daughter (the parents go with a residence visa from here, but children are to be requested in situ to officials (a bunch of thieves) were then put on a dollar. Thought "Spanish + blonde Chinese girl adopted = this is covered." They tried for a couple of hours giving me a bite for various reasons until the end came the Secretary General in person: I said they left a card "plastic" and that would eliminate the very serious work and when I asked him what my work had daughter and I quickly replied waving his passport in the air: "Lady, a minor can not enter this country (or any Latin American country) without the consent of the two parents. Lady where is John? "The coyotes were howling around me. A couple of years after the law changed (item above is incorrect, was amended in 2005, initiated by the Justice Minister Juan Fernando.

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